Recently I had the pleasure to accompany eight youth from
the Snoqualmie Valley to the Washington State Prevention Summit in
Yakima: Nikki Canday, Patty McGee, Halley Johnson and Jordan Backman,
from Teens Acting For Tomorrow, and Renee Atkinson, Nick Verbon,
Asley Overman and Hedi Lee, from the Snoqualmie Valley HUB Youth
Council.
These youth should be commended for taking an active role in
the prevention of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs in the Snoqualmie
Valley. It has been my experience in my role as a prevention specialist that so
often adults see youth as a problem and overlook the obvious that youth are a
resource in the prevention of substance abuse and violence. We, as adults,
are naive to think we know what will prevent youth from engaging in
destructive behaviors. Only by creating a vested interest with youth can the
community begin to address these issues. So again, my hat goes off to
these youth and all others who are trying to make a difference by becoming
involved.
The focus of this year’s prevention conference was mentoring, which is
a way we adults can also make a difference in the community. While
growing up, a caring man who also was my troop Scoutmaster became a mentor
to me, so I know firsthand what a difference a positive caring
relationship with an adult can make on a youth’s life without having to see all the
scientific studies.
For quite some time a fellow Kiwanian involved in mentoring
had been encouraging me to become a mentor. My standard excuse to her
was that I had too little time. But is eight hours a month too much time to
take from my schedule to make a difference in a youth’s life? Consider
that the average person spends more time than that watching television in
a week. I came to the realization that if I have time to watch “Sports
Line,” then I have time to be a mentor.
I encourage everyone to become a mentor, but especially men. There
is such a need for positive male role models for youth, but many of the
requests remain unfulfilled in the local Friends of Youth’s Snoqualmie
Valley Mentoring Program all because we “just don’t have the time.” It’s not
that we don’t have the time, it’s just we don’t make the time. Make the
time and find out how you can make a difference. Call Casey at
Snoqualmie Valley Mentoring Program, (425) 788-8422. Rather than watching
the lowlights of the Seahawks game, why not save a youth’s life?
Chuck Miller
Duvall